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Why Grit Is More Important Than Intelligence
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Why Grit Is More Important Than Intelligence

Why Grit Is More Important Than Intelligence

While 2020 has been difficult, one unintended opportunity the pandemic has provided us is an opportunity to teach our children grit. It takes grit to withstand today’s challenges. It’s not easy, but very important.

Grit is something every parent wants their kids to have and there is no better way to learn it than by actually practicing it today. Angela Duckworth, a psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania, renowned TED speaker, and bestselling author of Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, published a landmark study on grit. Duckworth's research found that grit, self-control, reliance, and ambition were the most reliable predictors of success, not intelligence.

Research has shown that unlike IQ, which is relatively fixed, grit is the type of skill that anyone can develop. There is plenty you can do to help your children develop grit to help them succeed.

How can your child start building grit?

1. Help your child adopt a growth mindset

Big Life Journal has a great printable guide for parents with a few simple tricks:

  • Praise effort, progress, hard work NOT talents, gifts, or ability
  • Use the power of “Yet” to remind kids they can do anything
  • Recognize your own mindset, messaging, and actions
  • Ask about your child’s day, challenges, learnings

2. Help your child find something they love

You can even do this virtually! Interests change quickly but overtime they will find ones that stick. You, the parent, can facilitate this by giving your child multiple opportunities to try as many new things online or in person as they can. Listen and be a sounding board.

Finding something children love can be time and cost intensive. An easy way to have kids explore their interests is through tract.app, my new learning platform. What is unique about Tract is that it is a community made BY KIDS, FOR KIDS, the first of its kind online. Every week, Tract Student Leaders host safe, fun, educational live events on various topics helping your child explore what may interest them.

It aligns with the teachings of Angela Duckworth, mentioned earlier, and Carol Dweck, a Stanford Professor of Psychology. Dr. Dweck says that kids are more likely to succeed when they have a core purpose. We are trying to help all kids have the opportunity to find their calling online in a safe, productive environment where parents don’t have to worry or supervise.

3. Communicate regularly and show your unwavering support

Parents need to communicate with their kids on a regular basis. This means active listening and showing affection. Hugging kids not only makes them feel better, it makes you feel better too. You can tell stories that build optimism. You can tell personal stories of grit that you experienced. You can share famous failures.

Kids learn to be optimistic or pessimistic from the people in their lives and that is primarily the parents. I know it is hard but the alternative, being pessimistic, is worse. It is like a war today---humanity vs the virus, and our political situation makes it even harder. Winston Churchill’s wise words from the darkest time in WWII is  still relevant now:

“Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm”

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